Guide to Talking Dirty During Sex: 107 Tips and Examples

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” “What if I ruin the mood by laughing because it just sounds so ridiculous? ” Manta says she hears anxious concerns like these all the time in the field. When you’re mastering the art of how to talk dirty, you might feel silly at first—just know that you’ll survive and gradually get more comfortable with the sensation of feeling awkward. How often do you feel that your partner is no longer interested in you? Well, if that’s the case with you, then you really need to do something about it and learning some dirty sex talk may do the trick.

How fast you’re talking.

When you talk to him like a wild banshee, completely unabashed, he’ll go crazy for you. This will make your sex more enjoyable, but also build up sexual tension in the form of erotic foreplay so that he is thinking about having sex with you even when he’s not actively engaged in the act. All of the dirty talking phrases we’ll share with you are based on your own sexual confidence. As you can see, there are so many different situations where you can use dirty talk to amp up the sexual tension and turn your man on. In fact, using dirty talk is one of my favorite sexting tips. We also discussed some of the ground rules to make sure you get the most out of talking dirty to your man, so that you don’t accidentally freak him out when you do it and that you talk dirty with confidence.

“I love how you taste.”

If you practice alone what you want to do with a partner (even if in your head), you’ll eventually gain the confidence to share those thoughts during the heat of the moment. I just used words that I was comfortable saying. All you have to do is get yourself in the mood and practice by yourself. When you’re with him, just say words that don’t make you blush. Even I, a well-adjusted sexual creature with few hang-ups and a church-less childhood, will occasionally try something filthy and afterward say, “But you love me and think I’m a goddess, right?

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• Tune into his mood and the situation and place that you are both in.
• Then, bed time is a great opportunity for you to show him the impish things in your mind.
• This dirty question to ask a guy can lead to even dirtier questions about what he’d like you to do to him.

These questions are sexy, seductive, and downright dirty and may even help you discover more about each other. They are the perfect way to build up explosive sexual tension and get him thinking about you all day long. With the right phrases, your man won’t be lasting too long. If you’re just starting out with dirty talk, choose phrases you feel comfortable saying. If not, it’ll look unnatural and that’s not a turn on.

For example, maybe in your opinion “soft” is a compliment, but your partner hears it as a criticism of their weight. Or maybe you enjoy being called a “slut” during sex, but the request to call you such pulls your partner out of the moment. And by speaking our sexual thoughts and fantasies aloud, we can engage the brain more deeply in the sexual act, making it that much more pleasurable. The bedroom should always be a judgment-free zone, but that doesn’t make anyone invincible to embarrassment.

That’s a great dirty question to ask your boyfriend to find out about his sexual past and interests. Sexuality is a spectrum; being attracted to someone of the same sex once doesn’t mean you’re gay. Find out comfortable your man is with his sexuality. Let’s face it, a lot of guys like superheroes, and a lot of guys really like certain female superheroes. Find out which one he’d want to have sex with and dress up as her.